people who are sex positive/against slut shaming need to stop acting like abstinence/celibacy is such a horrible thing.
i’m going to stay a virgin until i’m married, that’s what i choose to do, and the fact that i’m doing that seems to be absurd to some people. i’ve been called a prude and made fun of for it a lot, even though i’m not hurting anyone. there’s so much peer pressure to go out and give up my virginity to any random stranger who shows the slightest interest even though i’m really uncomfortable with that. saving myself for my future husband is extremely important to me. it’s my choice.
i don’t care if people want sex a lot or sleep around, that’s their choice and as long as they don’t talk about it and throw it in people’s faces there’s no issue (sorry but it’s really revolting having to listen to what goes on in your personal life, keep it to yourself or tell someone who actually wants to hear about it, your sex life is not something to be broadcasted to everyone) so if they don’t want people shaming them for their personal decisions, why is it okay for them to do the same to me? why is it so wrong for somebody to wait until they’re in love, until they’re married, or to never do it at all? how come it’s okay to have a lot of sex, but not okay to save your virginity?
i don’t judge what people do as long as they don’t judge me, either. so if you’re going to shame people for being ‘prudes’, don’t get mad if they slut shame. if you think shaming one is okay but not the other, you’re an asshole and huge hypocrite, that’s all i have to say to you.